Most instagrammers annoy me because they send out the wrong message.
I cant give you perfect pictures all the time because I am not a photographer. I can’t give you hot ootd pictures cause most times my hair is bunched up and I am in jeans and a tee busy living and working like everybody else. I am not a model and I don’t aspire to be one…I am just like (most) of you. I am not better than anyone else so I won’t try to make you feel awkward and jealous.
I own a few luxury cars but I don’t post my pics of my nails on the steering wheel and the keys on the table every morning with my coffee because I don’t see the need to make people jealous. Jealousy does make people “burn” and it churns unnecessary emotions – you don’t need that kind of negativity. Why make somebody that doesn’t have a luxury car feel less adequate? Does it make you feel more successful? Showing off to somebody less fortunate? Yet you shut it completely and swallow your pride when you see a “bigger” fish with a better car or better things to flash?
Life is not about accumulating “things” – you can lose everything in the blink of an eye. Would you like it if the tables were turned and people make you feel small because you have nothing? Your looks can be changed in a minute. accidents happen every second….cancer among other dreaded diseases is a sad reality …will you not be worthy of the gram then? How will you pose? Before you laugh…point fingers or push people under you. Think about life and what you really value. The sooner you understand this…the sooner you can detach from things that are expensive but have no value. The sooner you can be happy and fulfilled.
Brands want us to be a “certain” way to attract a following…all Instagrammers are starting to look the same. Be yourself and attract your own unique tribe. They will love you even if you have nothing but love to give ….. because the energy itself is enough.